25 Security & Safety Tips From a 45-Year Veteran

The Thanksgiving season brings families, travel, and togetherness, but it also brings unique safety risks. From crowded parking lots to distracted shopping, kitchen fires, and home break-ins, the Thanksgiving Holiday can be a busy time for first responders.

As a security professional with over 45 years of experience, a former police self-defense and rape prevention instructor, and someone who has trained thousands of law enforcement, healthcare workers, and educators in personal protection, I’ve seen firsthand how quickly small oversights can turn into big emergencies.

Here are 25 practical tips to help you and your loved ones stay safe, secure, and stress-free this Thanksgiving holiday.

Holiday Shopping & Parking Safety

1. Stay alert and look confident. Awareness is your first line of defense against theft or assault.
2. Park in well-lit areas and close to entrances when possible.
3. Avoid distractions! Don’t be on your phone while walking to and from your vehicle but keep it handy to dial out for an emergency.
4. Lock your car doors immediately after entering or exiting.
5. Keep valuables out of sight.  Store bags, gifts, and electronics in the trunk before arriving or cover them with a dark cloth so they are out of sight.
6. Use the buddy system whenever possible.  Shop with a friend or family member, especially at night.
7. Have your keys in hand when approaching your vehicle. It reduces fumbling and increases awareness.
8. Be cautious of anyone approaching you asking for money or help in parking lots. Scams are common during the holidays.
9. Don’t overload yourself with packages. It limits visibility and reaction time.
10. If you feel unsafe, ask security or store staff for an escort to your vehicle.

Home Safety During the Holidays

11. Lock all doors and windows even when you’re home or stepping out briefly.
12. Use timers on lights or smart home devices if traveling, to create the illusion of occupancy.
13. Ask a trusted neighbor to collect mail and deliveries. Nothing says “empty house” like packages piling up.
14. Don’t announce travel plans on social media until after you return.
15. Check your alarm system before you leave.  Make sure monitoring and cameras are active.
16. Keep ladders and tools stored away. Burglars often use homeowners’ equipment to gain access.
17. Secure sliding doors and windows with dowels or rods to prevent prying.
18. Store spare keys safely. Never under mats, planters, or mailboxes.
19. Make sure outdoor lighting works.  Motion lights can deter trespassers effectively.
20. Know your neighbors! Strong community awareness is one of the best forms of security.

Fire & Kitchen Safety

21. Never leave cooking unattended. Unattended stoves are the #1 cause of Thanksgiving fires.
22. Keep children and pets out of the cooking area. It prevents burns and spills.
23. Turn pot handles inward to prevent accidental tipping.
24. If deep-frying a turkey, do it outdoors, away from structures, and ensure it’s fully thawed before lowering it into oil.
25. Keep fire extinguishers nearby and make sure everyone in the household knows how to use them.

Personal & Family Preparedness

• Review emergency plans with your family: who to call, where to meet, what to do in a fire or break-in.
• Trust your instincts. If something feels off, a person, a situation, a location, step away and reassess.
• Be a good neighbor. Look out for elderly or vulnerable residents during cold weather and travel periods.

Final Thoughts

Thanksgiving should be a time of gratitude, not regret. Most incidents can be prevented through awareness, preparation, and teamwork. Take a few extra moments to plan for safety, whether it’s locking the door, watching your surroundings, or double-checking the stove.

Protecting yourself and your loved ones doesn’t take fear. It takes foresight.

Stay safe, stay aware, and have a Happy Thanksgiving!